- There is nothing wrong with you, just the way you are dealing with your thoughts
- Just knowing accurate information about unwanted intrusive thoughts will make them less distressing
- Your commentary in the form of the back and forth arguments between “Worried Voice” & “False Comfort” can be the most distressing aspect of your unwanted intrusive thought
- Observing and letting go of your commentary will go a long way toward gaining some relief from your intrusive thoughts
- Thoughts stick because of the energy you expend to fight them
- Unwanted intrusive thoughts get stuck because you inadvertently fuel them by trying to push them away
- Despite how they may feel, impulses and intrusive thoughts couldn’t be more different
WISE MIND: Nothing in life is risk-free – really, nothing. You can live with it or drive yourself nuts around it, it really is up to you.
- Contrary to common sense, reducing your effort to avoid intrusive thoughts will often lead to less distress
- Toxic worry is not defined by the worry topic, but by how the worry thoughts behave.
- Most of your distress is caused not by what you think or feel, but by how you feel about and react to what you think and feel
- Busting myths with facts about thoughts will make intrusive thoughts less sticky
WISE MIND: Everyone’s mind goes everywhere. It could be interesting to watch. I have no need to stop any of it. Nor do you. Thoughts are just thoughts and they just happen
- Thoughts have nothing to do with character. Only chosen actions do
- Thoughts do not change probabilities in the real world
- Your attention may be hijacked by junk
- Thoughts that repeat are stuck, not important
- Your wise mind knows that feeling anxious is not the same as being in danger
- Neither thoughts nor feelings are facts
- Less is more when coping with unwanted intrusive thoughts
- Entanglement is a major factor in keeping intrusive thoughts going
- Unwanted intrusive thoughts feel like they are not you
- Certainty is a feeling, not a fact
- Accept and allow is more of an attitude than a technique
- The feeling of urgency that comes with an unwanted intrusive thought is a false message from your brain
- Exposure is the active therapeutic ingredient for overcoming anxiety
- Anxiety tries to convince you that intrusive thoughts have special meaning. Part of beating anxious thinking is refusing to be taken in by this message
- Humour goes a long way to making practice more manageable