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Online Relationship Counselling · Aberdeen
Online Relationship Counselling in Aberdeen
Online relationship counselling for Aberdeen, by secure video, wherever you are. Finding a counsellor who genuinely fits matters more than how close they are. Online relationship counselling lets clients in Aberdeen work with me from the comfort and privacy of home, by secure video.
BACP registered member25+ years of experienceLived experience
ConfidentialA safe, private space
Person-centredThe therapy fits you
Relationship Counselling for Aberdeen, without the journey
From the heart of Aberdeen, near the granite architecture, the harbour and the North Sea, out to its edges, from the granite centre and the harbour to Old Aberdeen, Torry and Bridge of Don, online sessions make it possible to get the right support without rearranging your whole day around a single appointment.
My room is in Hove, but the work reaches a great deal further. By secure video I support people throughout the UK, Aberdeen included, with the same care and attention as an in-person session.
I also work online with people elsewhere in Scotland, including Dundee, Perth, Edinburgh.
If you would still prefer to meet in person and can travel to the Sussex coast, you are welcome to, but for most clients in Aberdeen online relationship counselling is the natural and effective choice.
Life in Aberdeen
Why people in Aberdeen reach out
Aberdeen, the granite city on the north-east coast, has lived through the booms and busts of the oil and energy industry, and that volatility brings real insecurity. Long rotas offshore, the strain on families left behind and the remoteness of the far north-east all shape what people here carry.
Coastal towns can be wonderful places to live and isolating ones in equal measure, especially once the season turns and the days shorten. Working online means the help is there through the quiet months too, without a long journey inland to reach it.
What I help with
How online relationship counselling can help
Trust and repair
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Distance
Finding your way back to closeness.
Long-distance couples
Sessions you can join from different places.
Anxiety and reassurance
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
Individual work
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Why online works in Aberdeen
Why people in Aberdeen choose online counselling
No long trip inland
Living on the coast often means the nearest specialist is a long way off. Online sessions close that distance entirely.
The comfort of your own space
Many people find it easier to open up from their own sofa than in an unfamiliar room. From Aberdeen, that comfort is part of the work, not a compromise.
Begin sooner
Rather than waiting for a local appointment to come free, an online slot often means you can start the work much sooner.
Human, even on a screen
The technology fades within minutes. What remains is a real, attentive conversation, the same one we'd have sitting in the room together.
How online sessions work
Underneath the screen, the therapy itself works like this. My approach is integrative and person-centred. We are not looking for someone to blame, but at the system the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, drawing on relational therapy, Internal Family Systems and Human Givens approaches.
Practically, it couldn't be simpler: a quiet room, a device with a camera, and a steady internet connection. After a free fifteen-minute call to check the fit, you'll get a private link to join at our agreed time.
Read more about online counselling, about relationship counselling, or about my methods, sessions and fees.
Start the conversationFinding support in Aberdeen
My online counselling sits alongside the help available locally, and it can be worth knowing what else is there. In Aberdeen, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner, stay with the same counsellor throughout, and work at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I'm glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
If you need urgent help now
This practice is not a crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, and the Samaritans are on 116 123.
Aberdeen questions
Online Relationship Counselling in Aberdeen: common questions
Can I have online relationship counselling if I live in Aberdeen?
Absolutely. Aberdeen is well within reach, because we meet by secure video rather than in person. You'll get exactly the same specialist support as someone sitting in my Hove room.
How does online relationship counselling work from Aberdeen?
We meet over a secure, private video link at a time that suits you. You'll need a quiet space, a device with a camera and a steady connection. We always begin with a free fifteen-minute call so you can ask questions and check the fit.
Is online relationship counselling as effective as meeting in person?
For most people, yes. Online therapy can be just as effective as meeting face to face, and many find it easier to open up from home. Everything is held with the same strict confidentiality as in-person work.
Can I use the NHS in Aberdeen as well as seeing you?
Yes, and many people do both. You can access support from your local NHS talking therapies or counselling service alongside our work; private counselling simply means you can usually start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout. I'm happy to work alongside any NHS support you're receiving.
Online Relationship Counselling in Aberdeen, whenever you are ready
Take the first step with a free fifteen-minute call. Whether you're in Aberdeen or further afield, it's a relaxed, no-pressure way to find out whether we click.
Online Relationship Counselling in nearby places
Prefer to meet face to face? See counselling across Brighton, Hove & Sussex, or read more about how online counselling works and about relationship counselling in depth.