Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Livingston
Online relationship counselling for Livingston, by secure video, wherever you are. You don't have to leave home, or even leave your own room, to begin. Online relationship counselling brings a BACP-registered counsellor to you in Livingston, at a time that genuinely works around your week.
From the heart of Livingston, near the shopping centre, the country parks and the Pentlands beyond, out to its edges, from the centre and the Mall to Craigshill, Ladywell and Deans, online sessions make it possible to get the right support without rearranging your whole day around a single appointment.
I'm based in Hove on the Sussex coast and work with clients right across the UK by secure video. For Livingston, that means a BACP-registered counsellor specialising in addiction, anxiety, depression, relationships and trauma, available from the privacy of your own space.
I also work online with people elsewhere in Scotland, including Edinburgh, Falkirk, Glasgow.
If you would still prefer to meet in person and can travel to the Sussex coast, you are welcome to, but for most clients in Livingston online relationship counselling is the natural and effective choice.
Life in Livingston
Livingston is a West Lothian new town built for people moving out of Glasgow and Edinburgh, and its new-town origins still shape it: many arrived from elsewhere, and the layout is spread out and car-shaped. Building a rooted life while commuting into the cities can leave people stretched and short of close networks.
Newer and fast-growing towns are full of people who arrived from somewhere else, often without the family and old friends who used to be close by. Online counselling offers a steady, confidential connection while you build a life here.
What I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Why online works in Livingston
If you've recently moved to Livingston for work or housing, online keeps your support consistent while you put down roots.
Many people find it easier to open up from their own sofa than in an unfamiliar room. From Livingston, that comfort is part of the work, not a compromise.
Rather than waiting for a local appointment to come free, an online slot often means you can start the work much sooner.
The technology fades within minutes. What remains is a real, attentive conversation, the same one we'd have sitting in the room together.
Underneath the screen, the therapy itself works like this. My approach is integrative and person-centred. We are not looking for someone to blame, but at the system the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, drawing on relational therapy, Internal Family Systems and Human Givens approaches.
All it takes at your end is a private spot where you can talk freely, a device with a camera, and a steady signal. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call, then I send a link you join at our agreed time each week.
Read more about online counselling, about relationship counselling, or about my methods, sessions and fees.
Start the conversationMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally, and it can be worth knowing what else is there. In Livingston, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner, stay with the same counsellor throughout, and work at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I'm glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
This practice is not a crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, and the Samaritans are on 116 123.
Livingston questions
Absolutely. Livingston is well within reach, because we meet by secure video rather than in person. You'll get exactly the same specialist support as someone sitting in my Hove room.
We meet over a secure, private video link at a time that suits you. You'll need a quiet space, a device with a camera and a steady connection. We always begin with a free fifteen-minute call so you can ask questions and check the fit.
Online and in-person therapy are similarly effective for most people, and clients usually settle quickly once the screen fades into the background and the conversation takes over.
Yes. Sessions run on a secure, encrypted video link, and everything we discuss is held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as work done in person. All you need at your end is a private space.
A free fifteen-minute consultation is the easiest place to start. No commitment, just a chance for both of us to see if this feels right for you in Livingston.
Prefer to meet face to face? See counselling across Brighton, Hove & Sussex, or read more about how online counselling works and about relationship counselling in depth.