Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Sunderland
Online relationship counselling for Sunderland, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Sunderland — from the city centre and the river to the streets around the river Wear — with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.
In and around Sunderland
Life in Sunderland
Sunderland is a proud city shaped by shipbuilding, coal and now car manufacturing, with a strong identity and the lasting marks of industrial change. Insecure work, money worries and a deep local pride that prizes coping all shape what people here carry.
Where work follows shifts and the rhythm of the docks, online sessions bend around unsociable hours rather than asking you to fit your life around them.
Sunderland is home to the University of Sunderland and South Tyneside and Sunderland NHS Foundation Trust (Sunderland Royal Hospital); it is also the site of Nissan's car manufacturing plant, one of the largest in Europe.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you live, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full — the methods, what each session covers and fees — on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, you join each session from any private space using a phone, tablet or laptop — no software to install, no waiting room and no journey at either end.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
My online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Sunderland, you can refer yourself directly to NHS talking therapies for anxiety and depression, with no GP referral needed. You can find support through the NHS Talking Therapies finder.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Sunderland questions
Yes. I work with people right across Sunderland, from the city centre and the river outwards, and anywhere else in Yorkshire & North East, by secure video — no need to travel to Hove, and just as confidential as meeting in the room.
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start — no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Yorkshire & North East: Newcastle upon Tyne, Gateshead, Durham. See all of Yorkshire & North East.
Other online support from Sunderland: Addiction, Substance Use, Drinking, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma.