Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Online Trauma Counselling · Dover
Online trauma counselling for Dover, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Dover — from the seafront and the town to the streets around the white cliffs — with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.
In and around Dover
Life in Dover
Dover is defined by its port and its cliffs, a working frontier town where the cross-Channel economy brings shift work, uncertainty and the strain of an industry exposed to every political and economic shift. As one of the more deprived parts of the south east, it can feel a long way from easy help, and pride often keeps people from asking.
Where work follows shifts and the rhythm of the docks, online sessions bend around unsociable hours rather than asking you to fit your life around them.
Dover is dominated by the Port of Dover, the UK's busiest international ferry port, on the Kent coast.
The local picture
These figures are local context from official sources — not a description of you — but they show the scale of what people in and around Dover are living with, and why local support matters.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 116.3 per 100,000 in 2023/24, below the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Local data last reviewed June 2026. Each figure shows the year and links to the official source it was read on.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
The approach is the same wherever you live, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full — the methods, what each session covers and fees — on the main trauma counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, you join each session from any private space using a phone, tablet or laptop — no software to install, no waiting room and no journey at either end.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
My online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Dover, you can refer yourself directly to NHS Talking Therapies in Kent and Medway for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Dover questions
Yes. I work with people right across Dover, from the seafront and the town outwards, and anywhere else in London & South East, by secure video — no need to travel to Hove, and just as confidential as meeting in the room.
No. Methods like the Human Givens Rewind let us process a memory without you reliving it or even speaking the detail aloud.
Yes, when it is paced carefully. We go slowly, keep you grounded, and you stay in control of what we approach and when.
We build in ways to settle and pause, and never move faster than feels safe. Being in your own space online can make that easier.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start — no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across London & South East: Folkestone, Canterbury. See all of London & South East.
Other online support from Dover: Addiction, Substance Use, Drinking, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship.